Stephanie Thoma

I help people who are ready to lead at the next level—those who move fast, make confident decisions, and are willing to do the inner and outer work to create real impact. As an author, speaker, and coach, I guide you to embrace your natural strengths, build unshakable confidence, and show up fully in your career, relationships, and life.

My first book, Confident Introvert, helps reserved and sensitive people thrive in social and professional settings by leaning into who they naturally are. My latest, Not That Sweet, explores modern relationships, self-discovery, and the power of setting boundaries so you can live and lead with clarity and authenticity.

Featured in Forbes, Entrepreneur, and Psychology Today, my work blends deep emotional insight with practical, actionable strategies. Through my coaching, courses, and speaking, I give you the tools to cultivate confidence, create meaningful connections, and step into your full potential—without trying to fit into someone else’s mold.

If you’re ready to own your voice, expand your impact, and lead with confidence, I’m here to guide you to your next aligned step to bringing your vision to life.

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"Got my confidence to a level I never experienced."

“Investing to work with Stephanie, although sizable, has been literally one of the best investments I’ve made in my life. Just as therapy got my mental health to a state I never thought possible, her coaching got my confidence to a level that I had never experienced- it literally changed my life.”

- Charles C.

Product Marketing & Content Strategist

"Completely supported my pivot."

"Stephanie completely supported my pivot. I was blocked in a lot of ways, uncomfortable with uncertainty and had repressed emotions and Stephanie really helped me with this. I always felt super supported which is especially nice if you're looking to up-level your career. It was a metamorphosis.

I'm at an 11 out of 10 confidence level today and a lot of that is due to Stephanie. Would I recommend her? Yes!"

- Kelly M.

Burnout Coach

Stephanie's holistic approach to relationship building and leadership is a game chager.

Invite Stephanie to speak at your company, or facilitate an experience at an upcoming retreat.